Hiya thanks for clicking on the carrd :)

  • If you're proship, homo/transphobic, a zoo, terf, anti-anti DNI but if you're one of those I doubt you clicked on the carrd anyway lol

  • Please send pics if you can! 3 good ones make it so much easier.

  • Please make sure you're actually sending me characters that are fat. Theres lots of amazing body diversity in animation, but just because a character deviates from the norm in animation doesn't mean that they're fat.

  • If the character can shapeshift/becomes thin they must be primarily fat in their appearances.

  • No live action characters or real people.

  • No gross mean spirited representations of fat people! They're not hard to spot. Fat Princess comes to mind. The bar is super low for this one unfortunately, so it basically I just won't post characters that I consider to be a grotesque representation of fat people.

  • SEARCH YOUR CHARACTER BEFORE YOU SUBMIT IT! I recieve the same 3-4 characters weekly. Just look up the characters name with "fat character whatever" and it should be one of the first results. If it isnt, go crazy and dm me!

  • I can't belive I have to say this but don't send me porn. Don't ask for pictures of me, don't tell me I'm your chunky fat soft queen or whatever. You aren't going to get to see my cans and you'll just get blocked.

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  • Fat is meant to be a neutral descriptor, just like thin, tall, and short. However, it is commonly used to demean, degrade, and insult people. I use the word fat because I'm fat, and I don't think being fat is any worse than being short or thin.

  • Because of its use as a "bad word", people are weird with using fat. Since I'm here, I want to reclaim and neutralize the word fat using all these great characters. Its not a bad thing for anyone to be fat. Since these characters aren't real, now is a great time to learn how to use fat as a neutral descriptor. Using characters you already love and respect to get you used to it will help a lot. Representation matters!

  • Since the word has such a charged history, make sure you know which REAL FAT PEOPLE in your life are ok with the word fat. Being fat is really hard, you face a lot of discrimination that not fat people don't believe in. Not everyone is as comfortable with the word as I am, and it's not their fault.

  • This only applies to REAL FAT PEOPLE. Non fat people who follow me that have discomfort with the word fat might want to examine why that idea is so uncomfortable for you. How and why does it fit into your insecurities? How have you seen fat people be treated? How do you treat fat people?

  • I think that using fat as a neutral discriptor helps all people. Once you stop being scared of being fat/knowing fat people, your self confidence jumps no matter what your size is.

I have really intense trauma surrounding the basic concepts that make up Feeding, Gaining, Inflation, etc. I don't feel comfortable explaining further because I have had members of this community get off to my trauma before. I simply don't let these accounts follow me, I rarely check retweets or likes. I'm not trying to spearhead some anti-fetish movement, this is literally just for my own mental health. If you're running a nsfw account and you follow me the rule of thumb is basically "Does the idea of someone gaining weight/getting bigger/getting fatter get me off?" If it does you should probably unfollow me. If not then you just like fat people in porn and that's whatever. If you're an account that has been following me and you find yourself suddenly blocked dispite not liking or retweeting fetish content, It's probably because a blantant fetish account followed me and you were in the following list.